excellent time for me to read those lyrics, thanks for posting them...
i am bringing this over from shiny's thread so i wont hijack her thread any more than i already have.
Quote: don't know how specific you are being with the word "intimate"
sex, plain and simple. LOL
Quote: but I will tell you that when my h first started to come around...and was trying to come home...though he would intitate physcial contact he would not intitate the actual act itself...he knew how I felt about it...and left it to be my decision when I was ready for it.
hmmm, my hubby is not initiating anything, despite maybe some hugs goodbye or some good morning hugs.
Quote: I'm saying this because you may be making some assumptions about your h's thinking and why he may not be initiating things...since he was the one to stray perhaps he's leaving it to you to inititate he may not feel it's his place to do so.
about two weeks ago things got a little hot and heavy while we were in bed, during the night. he stopped cold turkey and said he couldn't, that it didn't feel right yet and that he wanted me to be patient with him. he more than knows i am ready to "consumate" this thing, but he is not ready. i could be negative and say that he is holding back so that i might leave and find it somewhere else, but the truth be known, i really feel like he is holding back because he wants ME to be sure, and he won't do this until he is straight with himself, and he isn't yet. he has told me that.
i appreciate the insight, but i do believe he KNOWS i am ready to jump his bones. one - because i haven't had any for a LONG while, and two - cause i want this new r to start and this to me is where the healing begins
