This sounds like my wife. She told me the same thing when I said it was her choice, she said she felt like she had no choice,ect...
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Thing is my wife is very strong willed and once her mind is made up there is no turning back. She will "force" herself to be happy and move on. I'm not sure how going dark/dim works with WAW's like that. Anyone have any experience with that?
Sounds exactly like mine, but I do think the going dim helped me and her. Our R is better now we don't fight we laugh have fun, ect. I think your W like mine wants to work it out and have a great M but they are afraid of it going back to the way it was. I'm worried about that also, what if we do get back together and fall into the same rut that got us here, I don't want to go through this again.
Keep strong and know that if you don't give her space and take time for yourself things more than likely won't work out.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
