waw after 13 years

[Making_IT]

Rob, you have hit well over 50% of my situation. Probably in the 80-90% range. The one thing that I haven't seen evidence of is any type of affair. I do believe that she has an ideal marriage in mind and what kind of person that would be with. I am not ruling it out, just keeping aware.

beno,
Hang in there man. The nights are killing me too. The swirling thoughts of the unknown future and trying to figure out what in the hell is going on don't allow for much sleep. My wife also moved into her own apartment. Although she has a job, I don't know how long she will be able to sustain herself. Her bills far outweigh her income and I have given her all of the cash that she can have (actually more than the fair share). I have closed the purse strings and don't plan to support her financially. This was her decision and she will have to figure it all out. It is hard as hell for me to keep that mindset when all I want is for her to come home, but I think this falls inline with taking care of myself and controlling my actions.

Take care