Hi, yes, I know what you mean. I wrote on another thread that trying to convince our spouses that we are what is best out there is like fishing. It won't work if you try to chase the fish. We have to try to lure our spouse back. And that the only way is to appear very attractive to the fish. If you GAL to the point of looking like you are enjoying your life, your W will want to be in on it. Unhappy people are attracted to positive energy. Keep up the good work, Kev. It sounds like you are attracting he in-laws, friends and family. It's just a matter of time before your W is wondering what all the fuss is about and how come everyone is still hanging around your place.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09