PM Thread #4

[Can it work]

PM

I answered your post in my thread already but I just wanted to come on here and offer my support to you.

What you're doing by still trying is admirable. Your resolve is amazing. I only hope if I'm still in the same place a year after the bomb that I can be as strong as you. I have read that a MLC can take anything up to 3 years to blow over. I'm sure you've seen that too? That must be a really difficult time frame to get your head around.

I understand that by not hearing from your H in a week that your negative feelings would increase towards the reconcilliation. I'd wait to see how things pan out over the weekend though. Do what your IC said and then pay attention to all the reactions your H makes. I honestly believe from your previous posts that you were starting to make some progress. I know myself that when you see the first signs that the wall may be weakening, you get your hopes up again and start hoping for more signs quickly. It does seem though in reality that these signs don't happen all at once. One thing my DB coach told me though was that it's the first stage that takes all the time. Once you move past it, things start to happen much quicker.

Stay strong PM. I still believe in you here. And keep smiling.

Kev