The adventure continues--part 2

[AFWAW]

Mel,
I have already forgiven her for whatever it is. That doesn't necessarily mean I have to take her back at this point though. I think that for the healing process to begin, she needs to disclose whatever it is she did, express remorse and we need to work together to ensure that it doesn't happen again. Say she did do the worst case scenario and I said you don't have to tell me. I would always be wondering what was going on if she had to stay at work late or what she was doing when she was TDY. If I knew what she did and she made steps to ensure that it doesn't happen again then I think the whole process would be easier.

Bottom line, I've already forgiven her. I still love her regardless.