HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[MrBond]

TH,

Have you started reading the DB books yet? After two years you are still emotionally tied to your H. You can justify it all you want concerning trying to get your affairs in order, but reading the long post showed just how hung up you are about him.

You mention the OW quite often and that's a BIG part that you have to let go of. You have to start detaching and not just because your H doesn't contact you. You have to detach for yourself.

There's your 2x4.

It should never have gotten so emotionally charged. I understand about your D's problems, but you've got to calm down and not let your emotions get in your way. That's where the detachment comes into play.

I'm so sorry you are hurting.

Start detaching and not let that go on anymore with you.

{{{stuck}}}