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Tomato #1748636 04/08/09 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted By: Tomato
hi sweet sis ...not much time to catch up on your's right now.

but I just left a post in prayer circle for my darling.

go check it out plz.

hope you and your's are great.

i will be churning out those prayers as your DH draws nearer. \:\)


peace


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T--

I will continue to pray for your DW to feel better as quickly as possible. Thanks for the continued prayers for DH, me, and our family. I am definitely getting short timers syndrome! I will check out the prayer circle in a bit.

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Kalni #1748637 04/08/09 03:27 AM
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Originally Posted By: Kalni
Hon,
I wish that everything will be better than how you "dreamed" it to turn out. And I am sure you look beautiful!
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{{{{{Hon}}}}}

Only God knows when that dream is going to come true, but I know it will. As for the beautiful part, thank you very much. I still see plain old me in the mirror, but some people seem to like it.

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Originally Posted By: StrgMarvelousWmn

I have made a decision with the Lord's guidance that is not too popular with some of my friends. However, they are still supporting me and praying that things are not an unmitigated disaster. How could it be, with God's leading?

It is hard to decide to do the right thing. I agonized over my decision for days, not wanting to submit to the promptings of the Lord. When I finally acquiesced, I I found more peace and calm.
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I know what you mean! When I told my family I was continuing to stand for our M, they thought I was crazy. But now over time they realize why I made that decision and respect it a lot more by seeing what God has done so far.

I think part of how we know we're in His will is the peace we receive. In the midst of uncertainity, when I aligned myself with God, I was overwhelmed with strength and peace. It's a great feeling, isn't it? :-)


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H: 33, second M
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Of course we like it silly!!! \:\) What is not to like!?! You have God glowing all around you!

I think you have made the right decision. Just decide those boundaries, and just be calm delivering them. If you remember what I would do with my H, I would first ask him what he thought was acceptable, or what he expected, then I would hear him out, and then I would tell him how I felt. When you let THEM tell you what should be expected first, they usually will say what you want to hear. When you TELL someone what they SHOULD do, or WILL do, you will most often get a rebellious reaction.


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Nothing like God's peace


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Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
Of course we like it silly!!! \:\) What is not to like!?! You have God glowing all around you!

I think you have made the right decision. Just decide those boundaries, and just be calm delivering them. If you remember what I would do with my H, I would first ask him what he thought was acceptable, or what he expected, then I would hear him out, and then I would tell him how I felt. When you let THEM tell you what should be expected first, they usually will say what you want to hear. When you TELL someone what they SHOULD do, or WILL do, you will most often get a rebellious reaction.



Crissy--

Thank you for your support. I maybe leaning on you and some others much in the days ahead. It is good to know you are there.

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Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Nothing like God's peace


It is amazing!

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Hey! Just stopping by to say that I'm thinking about you!!!!

Love ya!
Amy


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anytime SMW!!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
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H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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Originally Posted By: Amy M
Hey! Just stopping by to say that I'm thinking about you!!!!

Love ya!
Amy


And I was thinking of you--not hard to think about the sister of my heart! Have a wonderful weekend with your family and know that He is risen and through Him all things ARE possible!

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
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