It's Complicated! Part 5

[glamgirl]

Ok h calls around 2pm says he is on his way to the house. I say great, did you remember we have C today. He says no. I say it's at 5pm.

He came by my work and picked me up. He seemed in better spirits. We had a very good C session today.

It started with h talking about his work and letting C know what happened there. C suggested individual C for h and to get a thorough check-up. Blood work and all. H is ready to schedule this. Possibly something wrong with his thyroid. C says this can cause depression and lack of energy.

H tells us he doubled his meds today. C scolded h and said don't do that, you might end up in ER. Hopefully h will listen to the C, since he doesn't like listening to what I have to say. He also said don't miss doses.

Then we talked about h not showing, being disrespectful, h said it's like this when you are depressed nothing seems to matter and you just don't care. He says he doesn't mean to be this way, but he doesn't care when he is deeply depressed.

H did committ to seeing his Dr next week, getting blood work done, and chiropractic care. He also mentioned he wanted to eat healthy and start working out. He mentioned to C that he was binge eating and not on healthy stuff. That is always the hard part, since I mentioned that wouldn't be happening if h lived at home. I know should just zip my lips, but it pains me that h is binging on a dozen donuts and then feeling sick and no energy and depressed. Yikes!

The C was bold today and asked h if he was ready to move home. H paused for a bit, then says not yet. The C said could you start staying overnight a few nights. H shook his head and said yes. The C also said could he start spending more time at the house. H said that was his plan.

H mentioned how I am hanging onto resentment. I said it was more anger about being left with all the responsibilities. C said h you will need to start letting go of what you are hanging onto to start the reconciliation process.

Overall, it was a good session. We are booked every week through the end of the month.

H says he will be over Thur, Fri, Sat and Sun. Wow, what a switch.