Forgive me if you've answered the question I'm about to ask on one of your other posts but, would it be possible to type up an end of contract letter for your H to present/MAIL to this OW/client. Offer one final month of free service and dissolve the contract as of December 1, 2003. The letter can claim that in your Hs revised biz plan for 2004 he will be scaling back his service area and customer base. He can recommend his competitor(s) as alternate service providers. That would be a professional and impersonal way to END the continued association with her.
Just a thought (and lord knows I'm to nuts lately to give sound advise). T2
