"are you happier now?"

[sage]

if I do get them (one for me and one for h) how might I present them in a way that will not seem pressureing or demanding????

LL

Why not start listening to them yourself first...then when you get into them say to h "I've been listening to these tapes to see if I could understand how we could meet each others needs better. Would you mind listening to them as well and letting me know if you think the author is on the right track in terms of describing men?"


PS I know you were asking poe but thought I'd throw my 2 cents in...it wouldn't work on my h, though..I'd have to glue the walkman to his head!
Sage