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ow needs to go. it's humiliating to me and it should be humiliating to h to still work for her.
I agree, this should be a non-negoiatable item, tell him in a quiet time and quiet voice how you feel and that OW has to go off his jobs list. And agree on a time limit.

William Harley talks about joint ageement , here is a good chance to use it.






the time limit has come to an end.
ow's house WAS up for sale..was listed with ismh.com, did have open houses...did have the house as available as of june 30th (how kind I assume to let her kids finish the school year) it has not appeared as sold it has been dropped from ismh.com and does not appear with any other realtors, there is no sign infront of her house...I am assuming it's no longer for sale and heck even if it IS why should h keep her on for another year? in accepting that she stay on this year I was under the impression that the house would sell and she would move away...didn't happen..school has started and that would probably mean she'll be there till at least next summer...the school year not ending til june with the season starting in may? I can't go through another year of waiting for her to move...the only other option is for h to stop waiting for her to go away and to simply make her go away..there is no valid reason to keep the street....he has plenty of business and will not loose any as a result of it...if he wanted to be kind he could set them up with a company that he contracts some of his lawns out to.


he is aware of the fact that he created this problem (bet now he wishes his a was with a floozy in a bar instead of a floozy in his customer base) and now it would seem he just doesn't know what to do about it.

btw it should make you happy to know that I've looked up the audio for mars and venus...attempted to order two copies (they are only 10 a piece on the gray site) but my puter is acting up so I'll have to try again later.

if I do get them (one for me and one for h) how might I present them in a way that will not seem pressureing or demanding????

LL