No she's just doing it to take care of things. You're still trying to read her. Remember, what she does, doesn't matter. You're driving yourself nuts analyzing her every move.
"Has anyone else gotten to this conflict emotionally?"
Yes everyone goes through this. It's perfectly the natural flow of things.
"My therapist/our counselor points out that we seem to be different from most couples going through this, there is usually a lot of emotions. She doesn't see that from my wife."
Your W does go through alot of emotions...re-read your posts. She just doesn't show them in C. Probably like a defensive mechanism - shields around her heart.
"I feel hurt, sad, disappointed and frustrated at times, but I don't think I've been angry. She thinks that is very odd. Has anyone else not gotten angry?"
Again, re-read your posts. You have gotten angry and frustrated. You will get angry and frustrated throughout this whole ordeal. It's not going to stop when she moves out.
As hard as it sounds, all this is par for the course. What you're going through is what we all have.
You're handling it very well. Remember that you can only control your emotions and how you feel. Do things to get your mind off it. Pray alot and make the J-man your best friend. The clouds and shadows hovering over you will go away. I promise.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
