The adventure continues--part 2

[AFWAW]

Just keep on a positive plan for you and your D in the mean time.

Yep, daughter and I are having a good time and have bonded more than you would ever think. She feels comfortable talking to me about boys and other girl stuff. I am in contact with several folks out of state in the event this does not work out. I will be moving fast to a new job and location.

I think the critical moment will be her opening up to you. She needs to trust you will forgive her no matter what (with the boundary that it will never happen again), so that would be my focus, providing that "safe zone", reinforcing that you can take whatever she has to say, without pressuring her to say it. I think once she is able to open up to you, a burden will be lifted from her and things will start to fall in place.

Hey, I am ready! If she wants to talk, I will listen. It's getting to a point where something needs to happen either way though. If she wants to come home, great! All I require is full disclosure, mutual transparency and a desire to make this marriage work. If she comes back with an attitude then forget it! I am not making any demands however at this point. I want her to come home. Baby steps, baby steps, baby steps. Hey, I love her.