Quote: t is not likely that h would listen to a tape either...but if it will make you happy I'll go buy the damn things and give them to him...but alas isn't that again saying to him...look you're not doing a good enough job so here listen to these tapes so you can have someone tell you what you should be doing?????????????????
NOW, I can see what you H is dealing with.
Simply ask him to listen to "MEN ARE FORM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS". in his truck while he is running around. Ideally you listen together. Not the whole tape just small chunks at a time.
Present it as these tapes tell the difference between male and female, and it will make it easier to understand me. And you heard from others it is like a like bulb going off. A lot of things get explained. And his life would become easier.
In my case I finally understood why she was saying you are not listening to me. I was not listening I was in my fixer mode. I did not understand all I had to do was listen.
I did not have to fix anything.
I have 2 copies of M/V and I would be glad to send you one at no expense to you. And I would be glad to talk to your H and tell him how simple it is to keep LL happy.
