Also she can't just not have a job, how does she expect to support herself? Based on your earnings? She shouldn't count on that for many reasons.
response to this rob... she has told me she plans on having time out for a while, she is planning on me supporting her i bet, "not a chance" she did say she will goback to work but not yet, now how the hell is she going to pay £1600 a month just on rent thats before her other household bills, dont forget she aint seen the new me yet so she will be thinking i will be giving her cash. now i will need to give her something for the kids but it will be a small amount beacuse they will be with me a lot of the time,