I have always had friends of the opposite sex, but never men that I would hang out with alone. I think that having a wide variety of people around you is healthy, but again, within reason. And I dont think that its appropriate for someone who had been unfaithful to be nurturing a friendship that makes you uncomfortable.

If this is something that you need from her in your reconciliation... I guess I'm disappointed that shes not willing to be more sympathetic and give it to you. It seems like if she wants your R to work, she should be willing to let this man go...

Last edited by bluerain; 04/08/09 11:38 PM.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...