Brilliant ! Good for you.. you are getting there.. keep trying and then you will be swimming and it will be second nature! I'm glad that Jody concurrd.. absolutely.. you are giving her her power.. and what do you think she will do if you continue to IGNORE her whngey, whiney, nasty, blamey, hateful emails?? (unless its business that needs answering like you say, like the CC).. yep.. she will call instead. Better to talk or meet, or do meidation.. no more dancing to her tune my friend.
Seriously.. all this anger is sad for her, it will eat her up, its bad if you believe in the chinese medicine theory that stuff like anger can eat up the body and cause health issues.. hanging onto stuff the way she does, will not be good for her!!!
But.. rise above it. Be strong !! No more monkey/organ grinder stuff!
We are all here for you to keep yoi on track
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
