Hey, ot, talking to me? ;\) I'm on almost 2 +1/2 YEARS now! (Wow, I just counted that up!!!!)

Gwyn, IC is a good idea. The other thing to think about it getting out there to try things that you used to enjoy a long time ago, or things you thought about but were "too busy." You will figure out what you want as you learn more about yourself, who you really are, what you value in your life and what makes you happy.

I've been at it a long time, now, and I can say that there are moments when I am literally jumping up and down with joy and excitement, usually when I am doing something really fun with my kids, making my own art, or teaching.

Its all about refocusing your thoughts on YOU every time your mind wanders to anyone outside of yourself (what they are doing, what they are thinking, especially if it is negative or judgemental).