waw after 13 years

[Making_IT]

beno,
I feel for your situation. Like others, I am relatively new to a very similar situation myself. Lots of confusion all the way around. I have been doing the gym thing every night since this began and I have to admit that is the absolute best therapy that I could invest in. It makes me feel stronger, more competent and strengthens my confidence that no matter what direction my wife chooses our marriage to go, I will be just fine!

I am enjoying rob's perspective on the subject as well. It almost seems like he has experienced many of the same things we are feeling right now.... ;-)