I'm glad they found the nasty culprit. Hopefully, your son will be back up and on his feet in no time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
HI BND, just wanted to let you know how glad I am that your son is going to be ok !!!! Bless him...
You asked me a question on my thread...I just wanted to give you the answer....
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Well, BND....
H sent me an email today....asking me if I had time to get together with him this week, to 'settle' some things... I know he means talk about divorce, because he has said it in exactly those words each time before.
I asked him what he wanted to talk about, and if it was something serious, or I should worry...he said, 'no, but we always say we're going to put things down on paper, and we never do, so I thought, we could get together again...'
So, to answer your question..."what would your H do if you told him you were ready for him to go ahead and initiate divorce"... well, I think he would initiate yes. He still wants out, and to be honest, I don't think he'll ever want back in...
Yes, I'm ready to live my life, and I love doing so right now.... however being married keeps me and the kids in a finacially comfortable position...and I especially want the kids to have all they would have had (in possibilities and comfort) as they would have had, had we stayed together...
I hope that doesn't sound selfish or materialistic.
Love Cinders xxx
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