DO the WORK that everyone on here is explaining to you. It's YOUR CHOICE. Just do it! WORK on YOU and HOPE and PRAY that she chooses to WORK on HER. It's the ONLY way it will EVER WORK. And remember her choosing to come back is on HER TIMELINE NOT YOURS. PATIENCE! PATIENCE! PATIENCE!
As a newbie too, MB, I feel your pain re: patience, but PMA Baby is right on. We have to back off, work on ourselves and hope/pray. The rest is really out of our control!!
