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h is not the one who should fear any rejection...I am the one being rejected.


I wonder how he would respond to this?

I only ask because it has become blatantly clear to me that CJ perceived all manner of rejection from me, when I couldn't see it at ALL.

Couldn't your "pulling back" and distancing be felt by him as a rejection? I KNOW it's in response to his behaviours, but does he know that??

And as was said, your unhappiness is pretty apparent, if I were your spouse I'd be on pins and needles.

Shiny