I don't reject h....he rejects me. it is not until I all but give up and pull away from him that he makes attempts...as soon as I relax and am comfortable being near him he pulls away again.
him asking me to go to the drive in is huge...I'll admit that...but it's certainly not comming simply from me backing off...I backed off this time as a result of arguments about ow still being a customer and his indecisivness about what to do about that with blatant disregard for how it effects me and thus our m, a confrontation about son picking up h's bad habits (convo brought about by mil), h's falling asleep every night on the couch, h's distance becomming annoying to me etc.
so though it was nice and thoughtfull of him to recall that after I took cousin and son to drive-in my saying...we should go some time it's really neat, almost two months ago.
h is not the one who should fear any rejection...I am the one being rejected.
if he would attempt to take steps up and not continuously just get comfortable on one step only to then go back down....I don't understand how he thinks he'll ever reach that very low bar without trying?
