Yeah, I get the idea too that she's thinking of the single life. I hope she turns around soon.
Many of the tools I'm using for DB also work for depression because the end goal is the same - feel better about yourself. GAL, explore interests, exercise, sleep, eat right, treat yourself, etc. Still there's other stuff in there I need to take care of so getting through it is goal #1. I feel this problem partially contributed to the loss of the marriage and I won't let it take any more of my life away.
Your other thread was great. I've always suspected that if she came back I'd need to "pursue" more. Now I know for sure. It might be too soon but I might try to carefully sneak a flirt or nice comment in and see what happens.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
