And with respect to the part I left out, she doesn't feel guilty. Or, to be more precise, she's not manifesting any guilt. Whatever.
Her anger at you is her guilt. Her coldness towards you is guilt. She is wrapped up in guilt.
I always think that the M must of been crap before the bomb which in an ideal world would of been discussed before the need to introduce 3rd party. Hence any changes in you would possibly be what may of happened had the marital problems been dealt with civilly . Is that as clear as mud.
I personally am playing an extremely powerful legal and emotional battle with my H. I feed him the rope and he hangs himself. Great game and something for you to look forward to. Trouble with my h is he forgot who he married and who was the smart one in the relationship. I cant post my story as I believe he is following along like a secret squirrel so every now and again I throw him something and watch it unravel.
Maybe i do have control problems ....LOL I dont think so
