Had a good session with the IC today. Talked about everything that has been going on with me, D3, and W lately. He gave me some things to look for in D3 to make sure she is coping well. He also said that based on W's behavior patterns and in the few times he has talked with her he thinks she is either bipolar or borderline personality disorder. He gave me some stuff to read up on them and see if it seems to fit for either. Based on what I know of both of those I think she may be bipolar (and was actually diagnosed with that when she was a teenager but she doesn't believe it is true). We talked about protecting myself and starting to untangle the financial stuff and how to handle telling W about it. He also talked to be about consulting a lawyer to see what I would be on the hook for as far as spousal support and get that information before I start asking her to take her bills as I may be paying them anyway. I think that is pretty good advice and I will be doing that later this week or early next week. So, good session...some rough stuff to go over and it kind of depresses me some to think about but the sooner I get through this the better and it will help me to detach more.
