is it safe to assume that when most of you got married...things were good? you were "in love" with eachother, you we're friends etc?
these are not the words of a waw....listen....I was not "in love" when I got married, my h and I were not friends, life was not fun, h had his secret life and I had mine...I developed my own to counter his...I didn't intend to keep it that way but I suppose I should have known he wouldn't change with m.
h is never going to be a person who wants to do anything other than sit and watch sports. h is not going to be a person who enjoys talking...why he did those things with ow is beyond me.
we probably never should have gotten back together after our first break up.
we were kids when we met and it all fell apart long before we got married...long before we had kids...I kept trying to make things better but it just didn't seem to work...aparently it only made things worse...h's choice of action has changed my perception of him...before I could accept his shortcommings because I could at least say to myself...he's honest, he dedicated, he's compationate, he's loyal, he's ambitious, and he's a hard worker.
I've discovered... he's not honest he's dedicated to himself. he's not loyal he has compation but he chooses who to have it for. I don't see him as ambitious anymore a hard worker....maybe...I don't know what he does all day.
