Song - You're doing everything u can. U handled yourself perfectly. Just remember it's all about giving up control. It's on her timeline NOT YOURS. U have to decide what u need and want. If u still think it's worth it then stick it out. I on the other hand, realized mine wasn't worth it and I deserved better so I just went along w what she asked for and got D'd. Use the time to figure out what u need. If u don't want to play games then just tell her that u know where I stand and she needs to do what she needs to do, but u are not going to help her do it. It's tough love bud. Also, tell her that u are looking at the big picture and dont want to have any regrets. Especially when it comes to the kids. Give her something else to think about if she hasnt in awhile.