Well, only a few months back she was still blaming me for the bad relationship she has with her parents, but apparently not anymore. So, to me, that's actually a pretty good improvement! I was just getting tired of hearing over and over again that my ONE discussion with them is what caused her parents to not care about her. It's been like that for years!!! It was like that when I met her for the first time 11 yrs ago, and it's STILL like that!!! And my 30min convo with them screwed everything up? Anyways, I did not feel any blame from her on that at all this time, not verbal or even non-verbal, so I am glad about that.
Yesterday, she comes to pick up the boys and was venting to me about how her mother treated her when she went by her parents house to say goodbye to her sister (driving back home today, to your state T! ). I fully agree with everything she said, they are all things I have been saying for the past 10 or so years, and so I was able to give her some validation on that. I mean, she KNOWS that I am on her side as far as her parents are concerned, but she seemed to have forgotten that, but it's slowly sinking back in I think.
). I fully agree with everything she said, they are all things I have been saying for the past 10 or so years, and so I was able to give her some validation on that. I mean, she KNOWS that I am on her side as far as her parents are concerned, but she seemed to have forgotten that, but it's slowly sinking back in I think.