I thought you guys weren't interested in dating, and now you want pick up lines? \:\) Honestly, with me, I just like someone friendly who seems interested in getting to know me. Not too pushy, not sleezy. And as for topics for conversation, usually the situation lends itself to something: the game I'm watching at the sports bar, the band I'm watching at a concert, where you're going on an airplane, etc. Helpful?

Got an email from xBF just now asking about any bills due this month. That's it. No word on the letter, no asking to get together, no revised settlement document.

I'm sure he's trying to do the same thing I did when I didn't respond to his emails/letters right away. That's fine. But the clock is ticking and I'm not going to put my life on hold for him much longer.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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