Hi guys...I'm sorry I haven't replied to the other replies, I was out for a few days...
But SMW...I have a feeling you are going to win this battle....of course, the OW and your H's "thing" will crash and burn, there is no question there...I hope it doesn't take too dang long either! I know you've been waiting in limbo so long while he was on leave....I'm really rooting for you....I think you might end up being a success story around here in years to come....