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Trapt, one thing I am learning from all this is to let things go. Cant change them and it doesnt do any good hanging onto them.

y?But, what the heck do I know anyway?

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Trapt,,,,,,, personally?

I think you handled this with style, dignity, and grace. Don't doubt yourself with the I should haves, and shouldn't haves.....

Would you say that you are a better friend, father, mentor, than you were six months ago ?

You can move forward holding your head up high......

But I still don't think this is completely over yet....

Just my thoughts....

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Yes I feel I can say that.

I think the should haves will fade away soon. There is no point in holding on to them.


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Trapt,

Fun and games aside, you are a great guy. I may joke with you about things but I do think you are one of the few men (yes, I said men and not boys) I can say I respect. You stood for what you believed in and never faltered. You gave it your all. Many men would have given up long ago but you didn't.

I'm glad I met you and that I can call you a friend. Believe it or not, you have taught me a lot about myself. You have been one of the people on these boards that taught me that I really was an ok person.

Ok, enough mushy stuff......back to the fun!!!! Unless of course you can't handle it. ;\)











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I doubt it is over. I still believe they all come back in one form or another. MLC that is.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
I doubt it is over. I still believe they all come back in one form or another. MLC that is.


Not in my case. Mine is not welcome back.











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Originally Posted By: trapt
Yes I feel I can say that.



Then you are one of the few that fully understand what DB'ing is about, and that is saving YOURSELF first......


whatever is next , will happen in time.......

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Never said you let them back in, I just said I think they all come back...like sniffing around to some extent.



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or like in a Stephen King novel.

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Hey trapt, I was wondering about you last night. Glad you are doing well. You have given me a lot of good advice on this board over the past few months, and I am so appreciative for my new friends : )


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
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