Quote: The "one week at a time" concept might be something worth experimenting with.
and of course I will come up with why that too doesn't work...and to be honest I would be ok with it that way. a while back...probably last month...emt class was every tues and thurs night...one of my gf's asked to do something with me over the weekend...I figured fri would be better as h does work a full day...so thought sure I'll do something on fri with gf and then sat h and I can do something...on wed I said to h...gf called and wanted to get together this weekend...I thought fri would be best as you work and may just want to relax then we can do something together on sat night...h's response..."why don't we just take sat as it comes" and if I recall sat came and went probably with him sleeping on the couch...the other couch!
so you see I can't even make plans one week at a time and that is why I would like to schedule a specific night for the week...and sure I'm ok if say wed night is card night but wed night this week he has an appoinment or a bad day and isn't up for it..heck there's always thurs.