so we went through with the store, we close on monday. my h gave notice at his job and is finished there. all scary and good at the same time.

im just nervous on the trusting issues. he promised me he will dismiss the divorce action this week. i know very well without him telling me that he is still in contact with the ow. i told him she must be gone, i dont want to hear from her, he must cut all ties now. he promised that he would. he tells me his focus is on me and working out our marriage and being a family. he truly feels the fresh start with the business will help him to refocus to the old him.

the question now is do i push the issue of the ow, make sure all ties are cut, or do i wait a week or so to bring it up again? i find myself getting pushy...


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09