Quote: the tools and ability are all there...they've made themselves seen time and again...but I would like for them to remain a tad more constant. not at all saying I'm looking for or expecting some fairy tale life but....well...by now you all know what I'm about.
Well...then...there's hope. Something just needs to "move" him...
You know, I'd like to expand upon JJ's comments. I know for myself, I DB'd hard...gained an almost militant-like intensity that I took with me into Piecing. I also began to create a grandiose vision of what I expect my M to be like in order for me to be satisfied with our "new R." Well, many months later, after finally chilling out, I realized that my utopian vision will never be realized and that where I have backed off in my intensity, my W has picked up the slack.
I guess, LL, I know it's frustrating because you've done many different things to engage your H. Perhaps you are trying too hard as well. Let your H make his own eggplant sandwich once in a while. He learn to appreciate those things a bit more.
Something just needs to "move" him...
