All very good points. I'm not comfortable with it, but I'm not sure what to do. My W has insisted has she has all this time that there was never anything inappropriate between them. She says she was initially confused about her feelings towards him, but he never reciprocated that. Also, she says that while she wishes she hadn't developed this friendship in the first place, it's there now, so she doesn't want to turn her back on it, especially for no reason in her eyes. She wants me to just trust her. I want to trust her. It's hard, though. She did choose to come back to me. I in no way compelled her to do this. She came back to me. We ML regularly, we spend most of our time together, she reads her Bible on a daily basis. Everything seems to be going well. I'm afraid if I make this a sticking point it will make her turn and run and start feeling suffocated again. More thoughts?
