It's just that I really feel like I've messed up in our marriage (I'm not saying it was all me, but I definitely own 100% of my share of the responsibility). Now I feel that I've really messed up trying to save it by setting the cage door free that my wife jumped at it. Part of me thinks it's better that she stays in the house while I'm DB'ing. I'm torn as if she is feeling trapped, that's not a good situation either.
If she is still chomping at the bit to leave, I would let her. She is never going to learn to appreciate what she had otherwise. If she is much happier alone, you are just going to have to work hard on being an even more attractive option.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
