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Oh I forgot to mention, when we were out in the hallway getting ready to leave, I gave her a grin and said, I have a feeling one day you will look back and truly appreciate what I stood for and what I tried to do and if you don't, then this is probably for the best.


Amen.

Well done, Trapt.

Very well done.


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T, you are a class act. And she will look back and realize, you can count on it. Thank you for showing me that there are still some good guys left out there.

This will all probably not hit you for a few days, so be kind to yourself and get some extra hugs from your kids.

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...and I may quote that on my last day. FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
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Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
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Good job Trapt - your X may try to rewrite history in the future, but there is no denying that you gave her plenty of opportunity.

This web site does help immensely in softening the blow if and when going before a judge.

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Thanks again everyone, I can't tell you how good it feels to have this support.

It's been a pretty good day today. For some reason I have been reflecting on things from time to time today. It seems to just pop up every now and then. It's a little sad I guess, but knowing what has happened makes it easier. It wouldn't have worked out the way she is right now anyway.

Still moving along. It's time to get my financial situation in order somehow and there are some changes I would like to make to the house. That along with summer on it's way is keeping me busy. I can't wait to do some fun stuff with the kids outdoors and do a little fishing too.


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Reflecting is good, it is your mind trying to heal itself.

Any other day I would make a smart @ss comment about one of the things you wrote but today I will not do it.

Remember, one step at a time....one day at a time.











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Any other day I would make a smart @ss comment about one of the things you wrote but today I will not do it.


You're bluffing, your gun was empty. : )



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Any other day I would make a smart @ss comment about one of the things you wrote but today I will not do it.


You're bluffing, your gun was empty. : )


My gun is NEVER empty Jack.


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(from Trapt) It seems to just pop up every now and then




Do I have to continue with what I was going to say or can you figure it out yourself? See, I don't shoot blanks like some of you!!! \:D

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Dang....

Well at least it still works.


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Dang....

Well at least it still works.


Does it?











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