Quote: but if that is what my life becomes with h still not making a night for me then what's the point really?
i sure do hear you woman!
again, i don't know your sitch well enough so if i am out of line, please tell me.
BUT - if you did manage to start doing things without him on a very regular basis, could he possibly end up resenting it enough to do something about it? i get the feeling that he does things sometimes but not for the duration. this is a hard one
i did read somewhere tho that if he handles your requests ok then keep requesting. i heard it used in the "take out the garbage" routine. we as women HATE it when we have to remind someone to take out the garbage, it should be something that could be remembered. BUT they don't always remember but they also don't mind being made aware of it either. so, keep making them aware even tho WE THINK it shouldn't have to be that way.
ugh, i don't know if i am making myself clear.
all i know is that it is helping MY pma to get out with other ADULTS and i continue to do more of it.
i am even gonna start a spanish class, and leave the kids with HUBBY in the evening. oh boy, i can't wait!
