All because you have let go of any power you have, you have allowed this to be her decision and not yours and she will do whatever she wants to do now because you are letting her.
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robx could you ellaborate on this please? thank you just one more thing i would like to also ask is ive heard so many people say if you show your wife you are looking for someone new they will divorce you in an instance and that will ruin any good work you have put in to try and rebuild.
i also want to share this, when she left she took a few clothes, the for 2 weeks she kept phoning and texting for all her personal things.. so i plucked up the courage and packed all her stuff and dropped them off, it tore me into. but guess what she managed to blame me for that by telling her sister that i got over the break up really fast beacuse all her stuff was there when she arrived home from work... how the hell can that be?
she has also said to me today she might be going with the girls for a weekend away for her birthday on 25 may, and can i take her passport up to her. and she said i told my mum and said would it be cheeky asking me to pay for her as a present, SHE HAS SOME FACE THAT WOMAN, guess what no i wont be paying, period........
