Yeah I'm a master of the shock and awe technique of Divorce Bombing. :p
It isn't easy... but I'm taking my actions with a clear conscience because I tried everything I could to avoid this path. There comes a point where I have to do what I have to do in order to defend myself and look out for the best interests of D1.
I've shown compassion, understanding, and a willingness to forgive. I can't do more than I've done, and if W has no interest then I have to do what I have to do in regards to that as well. The more I consider BPD, the more I recognize that my children wouldn't be in a healthy environment if she didn't get help.
I went through this before... W knew that... yet here we are, she walked right into it. Common sense should have told her what to expect. Heck... I told her what to expect if we went this route. But someone (OM/MIL) convinced her to go after me with an attorney. So we see where that leads.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
