something else i would like to share i told her today that i will be paying the first months rent on her new property, dont know if that was right or wrong but i feel i owe it to my kids, they need a home to. now i will buy some basic essentials but that is it nothing more, so my question is what now what do i do to try and turn this around in my favour, make her feel she hasn't got me there for emotional support. at the moment she has me exactly were she wants me, i just dont know how to deal with it, robx i thank you very much and you have shown me something here and i wont forget it, please keep posting robx,
