Whew!, Finally made it reading throught the entire thread, what a ride just this episode has been.

I would be interested to re-read the 3 that proceed it just to remember how far things have come, but not to revisit the pain and anguish of learning the hard way. \:\(

Also in re-reading there were a few folks that popped in out the blue and offered their support, to which I extend my thanks. For anyone else who's been following along and not posted, I hope the posting of my situation and how it's evoloved to this point (as unfortunate as it may be ) helps you along in yours, for better or just to get through.

I should start a thread (and probably my last) in "divorced but not done" or something. Just don't feel like starting a new one though.

OH! LD (lonelyD) where the heck are you brother? it is my assumption that you hit a point where you don't want to deal with it right now? I understand, I took several breaks from posting as well. Tried to send you a PM but received a message I had to be an administrator to do so? :screwy:


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11