Quoting Jamesjohn: LL - Just a curiousity question here for my benefit...
Would you say that how your day goes has a direct impact on how you feel about your relationship with your H, or would you say that how you feel about your relationship with your H has an impact on how your day goes?
Maybe neither? Maybe both?
Again, just curious. Just me always wanting to learn more about relationships.
I'd have to say maybe both....
I know that there are some days when things seem a bit brighter as a result of a pleasant evening spent with h the night before...or I'm in a better mood because h has called often during the day or heck just early.
there are some days when I am in a bad mood...the kids are acting up and I start thinking it's all h's fault...if he were doing more for the r and not just for the house I'd be in a better mood and the kids wouldn't act up so much or I'd have more patience.
but then there are also days when it doesn't have to be h...if a friend calls...or comes to visit...or I have plans with friends...or I come here and find a few posts on my thread...
thing is I'm lonely....I'm home all day alone with two kids...don't get many calls and don't call many people cause they're at work...neighbors houses are not within earshot and they tend to stay inside anyway...at night I look forward to h comming home...an adult to spend some time with...some interaction...h sometimes gives it...but sometimes hides in his own world...before all this I would comment...I would seek him out...now I just leave him alone...heck when he falls asleep on the couch now I just leave him there.
