I don't think it's appropriate, as I think nearly all (ok, maybe ALL) guys either want to get into your pants, or they're hoping they can SOON be in a position to get into your pants. That's just the way we are.
I certainly have female friends, but it's in a group setting -- not going out just the two of us.
It's really all a moot debate anyway, as I don't think there's ANY WAY IN HELL that it's appropriate for your CURRENT situation! You're only 2 months into reconciliation!!!