GOOD DECISION, Vicky. I just wish you'd made ANOTHER good decision, and stuck to your "text-only" about the bldg. You allowed yourself to get sucked into waaaayyyy too much with him.
You need to show more self-restraint. As I've been stating on the boards here recently, DBing is not that complicated, it's more than it takes an incredible amount of DISCIPLINE.
In some ways, this will be good for you, as you say yourself, you have a somewhat addictive personality. I do too!