Mishka...that is where I see Kissak at...she NEEDS to do something for HER...no one here really wants a divorce...that is why we come here...some are fortunate...I am in that group...but some really NEED to cut the rope before...as you put it...the anchor slowly drowns them...
Kissak needs to really assess the situation...the two questions you asked yourself are exactly what I was getting at for her...they NEED to be answered...and once answered honestly...ACTION NEEDS TO BE TAKEN...it doesn't make you a quitter it makes you a conquerer...you then have the control, the power, and more important YOUR LIFE!
