Ok another thing, H mentioned again about how I went and took away his keys like he's a kid and that if he was to come home he doesn't even have keys to his own house. A little background, one of my flaws in our marriage was that I would constantly pack H's clothes and tell him to get out and then I would unpack the clothes of course, but H always said how do I think that made him feel like his home isn't his home (even though he was completely disrespecting me and his home). I did take the keys in Sept. when he said that he's not coming back. He keeps saying the say old crap though about me taking his keys to his house. I know H is bullshiting me on this and sometimes I like to call his bluff. I was thinking that I should go, leave his keys in his workvan that's parked up at this grandparents garage with a note that says something like "Here are my requirements: xyz. Don't even think about using this if you cannot meet these requirements."
