Right now you are doing what you think you should do to save your marriages and you are suffering because of it.
Time to take a look from outside the situation and instead of doing what you think you should do (which is giving you spectacularly positive results right now, am I right? ....)
Time to start doing the opposite.
I'm not telling you to be mean, in fact, quite the opposite, I'm telling you to act from a position of strength and set boundaries for how people and in this case your wives are allowed to treat you.
Anyone want to hear more? I don't want to continue posting if none of this is welcome or wanted, I know how painful it is to hear the truth but I also don't want to force you to hear anything either, you're being forced into this situation as it is, I don't want to be another pressure in your life.
In the end, ultimately the decision will be yours, just remember, nothing can guarantee that your wife will come back to you, nothing at all. Do what I say, do what someone else says, nothing is guaranteed.
All I know is based on 18+ months of personal research into a topic that I never wanted to know anything about and now believe that every man & woman should be equipped with this knowledge.
